30 March, 2013

The ONE.

"You can't stop loving or wanting to love. Because when it's right, it's the best thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and it's good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete." → Keith Sweat



WAITING

The second line is the feeling that you wouldn't want to miss. When a person is in love, it shows. When a person is in a rut, it shows. When there's a huge void in a person's life, it still shows no matter how a person tries to hide it. No random person or material thing can fill whatever void there is in your heart. It's like a vaccine. You need the right kind and the right dosage for a specific condition. Rebound? Panakip-butas? C'mon. Just be nicer, spare them.

Until the right person or the one comes along or comes back ( for some ), there won't be any difference at anything unless that one beautiful thing happens when the universe conspires in its perfect time. ❥__R.

65 comments:

Ricademus said...

It will happen...just need to make sure you're not distracted by a frog when that right person comes along.

I still can't figure out shy your posts don't show up in my blogspot dashboard!

Happy Easter!

Masshole Mommy said...

I agree, when you find that one special person, all is right with the world. Very well said!

Alli Smith said...

Everyone needs that special person in their life. I don't think a person can actually complete another person, but it sure does make life more fun to share it with that special someone. :)

(Terry) My Journey With Candida said...

Yep, we all need someone special to love and be loved. It is like we are on a hunt until we find it.

Betsy Finn said...

Waiting for the right one is definitely worth it. But at the same point, it does put a lot of pressure on that person to expect them to fill a void, or to complete you. But, on the flip side, you don't want to force a relationship that doesn't seem right!

Ashley said...

It is incredible what a difference having that true love in your life can make. It surely is the most powerful feeling and makes life a whole lot more enjoyable :)

Terri Ramsey Beavers said...

Love is meant to be shared on this earth and there are so many different types of love. I think everyone is happiest when they have love in their heart.

Jeanine said...

Well said! I agree with Alli above. I don't think another person can "complete" another person, but u do think they can make someone feel complete or whole. It will come!

Stacie @ Divine Lifestyle said...

I'm so lucky to have found "the one". It takes time for some people to find the right person for them, but when they do, it's magical.

Roselynn Mercedes said...

This put such a huge smile on my face as I couldn't help thinking of my husband. He's definitely the one and only for me and I am so lucky to have met him so soon in life.

Grace said...

Love is a wonderful thing and the loves that last a life time are the most special types of love. It is wonderful to love and feel loved.

Fiona said...

You're so right. This post really resonated with me, especially the part about the special person coming back. Love can be so joyful yet so hard too.

Hil'Lesha O'Nan said...

That quote by Keith Sweat is so true. Thank you for sharing!

Breanna Sheffield said...

When you find the right person you will know. The feeling makes everything so much better. True love is hard to find, but when you do it is life changing. Chin up, the timing will come.

Breanna Sheffield said...

Timing is something that no one wants to wait on. When you find that right person you will discover that it was worth the wait. Life is so much more satisfying accompanied by true love.

Ashleigh Walls said...

Beautiful post. I fell in love with the father of my children in 7th grade, it took awhile for us to be together but I'm so happy we are.

Bonnie Gowen said...

Great post and so true. When your in a great relationship and feel loved then nothing else matters.

Echo A said...

Everything happens for a reason and I am living proof of that. I found my "right person" when I was least expecting it!

Carra D said...

I don't think someone needs someone to be happy. I think you could find love different ways to be happy too ( family, friends, pets)

Krysta said...

Everyone has a basic human need to be loved AND TO SHOW LOVE. Super important and that time hopefully comes for everyone in due time.

Liz Mays said...

It's nice to have someone around who is a good match. It's a profound feeling, I don't think anyone should have to depend on anyone else to make them happy though.

Paula Schuck said...

I think there is someone out there for everyone. We just have to be open to allowing them into our life.

Dawn McAlexander said...

There's no doubt that love can make you happy. I know that there have been times in my life that I was alone and I felt so depressed. But, when I did find someone, it was the best feeling ever!

Elizabeth O. said...

Whoever said love makes the world go round is not fooling around. Truest quote ever!

Chubskulit Rose said...

Panakip butas, nit good. Just wait for the right one and your happiness will be forever.

Paulina @ Color Me Brave said...

I love this and can relate to this completely. I just quit my job yesterday. I didn't love it anymore. It wasn't making me happy. Sure there were people there that I loved, but they understood I wasn't happy there and they are now great friends and all supported my choice.

Cara W said...

I agree with everyone has commented, but I also believe Timing is everything. :)

Michele D said...

I believe finding that person that completes you can be difficult but when you do find someone your heart will know it. Love that song btw

CourtneyLynne said...

Finding the right person is so important I think! I have friends that try and say it's not, but who would wanna go threw life without sharing memories with?

Kori Tomelden said...

We all find the one we're meant to be with when the time is right. Just a matter of time and patience.

Donna L. Ward said...

Love that poem - and I feel it is just right on - I had decided 24 years ago that I finally didn't need anyone - and then he appeared - and I am feeling all is right in the world :)

Danielle @ We Have It All said...

I agree, finding the right one really makes a whole world of difference. Although, I have known many to be very happy alone.

Krystal Butherus said...

I haven't listened to Keith Sweat in years. What a great quote to share with us.

Kelly Hutchinson said...

This is something I was just talking to my teenage daughter about. Great points!

Tiffany C said...

I love my husband very much and am so grateful for him. Love can come in so many forms- friendship, family, etc.

Yona Williams said...

I totally agree. I don't know how some people can close themselves off from that. However, I feel this love doesn't always have to come from a romantic relationship - friendships also create that kind of love that is powerful too.

Erin said...

I totally agree! Thank you for sharing!

Chrystal Mahan said...

Many people dont realize that we can struggle so easily, but change our feelings with just a look or a blink of an eye. We wear our feelings on our faces and anyone who knows us can see that.

Gabriel said...

I think it's also important to keep your mind and heart open to connections with people who aren't your "type". I've had 4 serious relationships (over two years) and I loved every one of them for a different reason. Each one spoke to a different part of me.

Aisha Kristine Chong said...

Love is the most beautiful and powerful thing of all - no one can change that :)

Camesha | Mama Motivator said...

When the right person comes along, love is really a beautiful thing. Being ready for it is a whole other thing.

Rebecca Swenor said...

Love happens for everyone indeed. The one thing people must know first is that you have to love your self before anyone else can. Awesome post and thanks for sharing.

Lynndee said...

Keith Sweat. He's the one who sang 'Twisted' right? Liked that song. Anyway, for me, if it's meant to be, it's going to happen, come hell or high water. :)

Melissa Vera said...

What a great outlook to have on life. But sometimes the right person can you lead you astray as well.

Sarah @ Must Have MOm said...

I agree with you! Keith Sweat songs are definetly a great reference when you're on the topic of love too. Lol! Thanks for sharing!

Kiwi said...

I love that you quoted Keith Sweat! This is so true we all want and desire love we were all here to have that!

Danielle Des said...

Cherish that speciaL person in your life.

ConciergeLibrarian said...

I totally agree with you. When a person is in love it shows....there is no going around that

freddieandi said...

I love this quote. It's so true, when you are in love, you glow and feel like nothing can change how happy you are.

Angela Milnes said...

It took years until I found the right man and it was worth it. There is such thing as love and I'm glad i finally found it. I'm sure you will too one day.

Eileen Layno said...

Coming out of a bad marriage made me turn my back on relationships. However, everything changed when I met my second husband. He was everything I have ever wanted in a lifetime partner.

melandria romero said...

so when you find the right one , grab into it and cherish each day and love more like you never loved before

Jenn Peters said...

This is so very true. We weren't married until my late 20s. All kinds of friends around me were getting married and having kids, falling in love... and I remained single and had very very few dates. I just wasn't feeling it. But then it happened. We're going on 5 years this year :)

Angie Church said...

there is a new attitude and look when someone is in love everyone can tell and it is such a good feeling

Terri Beavers said...

I need to forward your post to a couple of my BFF's. It's clear for really good reasons that they haven't found that special one but they just don't want to admit it.

Shann said...

Find the right person and partner in life makes all the difference. It also helps when you are happy all by yourself first. I think that's why I was able to be open to love.

mail4rosey said...

I found happiness without a person. I spent my whole adult life with someone and I thought he was the one. He decided he wasn't, and now I'm starting over. I hated it, but now... I'll be honest. I LOVE it!

Michelle Mink said...

i completely agree when you are in love it shows and it also really shows when you are in a rut

Eileen Kelly said...

What a beautiful quote and so true! I wish everyone can find their love and stay happy

ana de jesus said...

There is hope for us all one day we will find the one we love.

Natalie H. said...

This is a great blog post. I like to think, if you want the "perfect" relationship, you need to be the person you're looking for. So if you want a successful person, you need to be that as well.

Jessica Cassidy said...

I wish you all the luck in finding "the one" it will happen before you knows it.

Martin Valenzuela said...

To be in love is the best feeling in the world, especially when it is unfolded in the right time and with the right person. :)

Marielle Altenor said...

To be in love is indeed a beautiful thing! Wouldn't trade it for the world.

JOJO VITO said...

everyone wants to love to be love and to be with the perfect someone...let's go for it :)